Are you asking yourself:

Is there any way for me to avoid this?

 

Actually, there is!

The Torah says:

See, I am giving before you today the blessings and the curses.

The blessings when you will listen to the commandments of Yehoiva, your God, that I am commanding you today.

And the curses, if you will not listen to the commandments of Yehoiva, your God, and you will turn off the path that I am commanding you today to follow after a different God that you didn't know.

Devarim / Deuteronomy 12: 26-29

  I gave the life and the death before you - the blessing and the curse and you should choose the life in order that you and your children should live.

Devarim / Deuteronomy 31:19

Listen = Blessing + Life

Don't Listen = Curses + Death